Well dear, coming from the dad part of it, with an 18 year old who is currently going over *asshole bridge*, who told me I was a fool for having yet another child with Sparky, (which is bullshit because she is a stellar example of a child), who won't give me the time of day, I have to tell you I feel your pain. Realy, I do.

As far as the blaming you. Don't buy it. It's a test and a trick and maybe she feels it but realy this all comes from her choices. If I didn't have the Princelings right now, Eldest's garbage would be hitting me worse. All I can do is check in, and not shut him out if he comes to his senses. You can't chase her down. Just be yourself. You have to live your life too, just keep the door open.

*hugs*